Howdy mozzers. Since a lot of people in the search space are geeks, it naturally follows that there are plenty of single SEO guys and gals. Therefore this post is for you! Actually, it's more of a collection of random SEO tips and tricks I've picked up recently that I decided to hang together by applying the tips to online dating at the same time!

Disclaimer: I'm going to reference OKCupid throughout this post. They are not a client, I have no alliegnece with them but they're like the Google of online dating. Their blog is an A+ example of how to write engaging content which gets links. I reference it all the time when talking to clients.

5 Ways Being an SEO Makes You Better At Online Dating

1) Add Trust

This is something I learned from doing Conversion Rate Optimisation. Getting users to convert almost always isn't about changing the colour of buttons or the position of images. It's about getting the right message across to your users. You want to find out what makes them tick and then give them what they want. This can sometimes be as simple as changing the text of a header on a page.

Top Dating Tip: Mention things like "good at cooking", "sporty" - people respond well to these kinds of hints that you're an awesome person.

Top SEO Tip: Make sure the language and message used on your site fits your users. I wrote a post on using natural language for CRO which contains a nice little case study you might want to check out.

2) Be Efficient

Effective SEOs are efficient people (and efficient people are also effective SEOs I imagine?). Rand wrote a fantastic post on using outsourcing to get things done which highlights the different tasks that you might be able to outsource and Will wrote a fantastic post on automating tasks (with a followup cheatsheet full of APIs). Anytime you find yourself doing the same task over and over again you should really stop and think about how you can do it more effectively. Can you outsource? Can you automate?

Top Dating Tip: Write an "opening message" - full of humour and intelligence and wit (outsource this if you find it hard) which you can use to woo potential suitors. Online dating is a long slow process (at least for guys) and you'll need to message lots and lots of people in order to get dates (at least if you're as ugly as I am) so take the pain out of this process by automating the opening email. Of course, with all good email marketing you need to make it look like it's not automated. Include references to specifics from their profile and get their name right!

Top SEO Tip: Automate automate automate. Did you see recently that you can now run scripts from within Google Products? Kind of like Google Apps only stupidly easy to use. It lets you send emails, access calendars and even create Google sites. The programming language is kind of like Visual Basic but includes powerful tools like sending emails and fetching web pages. I'll leave it up to you to imagine the possibilities here!

3) Research

Research is integral to strong SEO. You need to research rankings, links, site owners, potential link opportunities and a whole host of other things. The internet lends itself to researching and gathering data and sometimes you need to employ some of the SEO tricks you've learned to use Google effectively or to track down an errant webmaster. There was a scary email conversation between distilled and SEOmoz staff following a Q&A where we discussed how to find the individual behind a social media profile. The amount of data you can gather from a simple digg profile is terrifying. Within a few minutes we had his real name, family members, wife's name, address and phone number. So next time you think you're posting something "anonomously" think again!

Top Dating Tip: Users will often use the same photo to sign up to loads of different sites. So use a service like TinEye to do a reverse image search on potential suitor's profile photos. What people write on social media profiles and what they write on their personal blog are two very different things!

Top SEO Tip: Following the image theme, I recently picked up a really neat trick you can use to find people who are hotlinking your images. Simply use the imagesearch: command in Google Images like this: imagesite:seomoz.org -site:seomoz.org (make sure you're searching google image search!)

I'd like to think that you'd use this list of sites as a list of places to get links from rather than a list of sites to goatse but each to their own... (hat tip for this imagesite search query goes to Andre who I met at A4uexpo in Munich).

4) Stay Fresh

The idea that having "fresh content" would help you rank was one of the myths Rand recently addressed and I certainly don't think it carries much weight. That said, for fresh queries, fresh data is essential. Rand recently talked about how twitters of a URL may help them rank for QDF-style queries. Certainly QDF is one area of SEO that a lot of people overlook.

Top Dating Tip: Having a fresh profile helps get dates. If your join date is 2 years ago or your last login date was over a month ago then chances are you're not interested. So make sure that you keep things up to date. I also think that some of the ranking algorithms at sites like OKCupid favour fresh profiles over stale ones.

Top SEO Tip: Think about which queries are triggering QDF algorithms in your industry. Are they worth chasing? Is your site set up to publish content fast? Is your content team set up to publish content fast?! Some SEOs I've talked to recently still didn't even know there was such a thing as QDF so if you're in this space make the most of it and think about twitters of your URL like Rand says. Here's a good beginners QDF video (oldie but goodie)

5) Test Test Test

Testing is crucial to online success. Whether it's testing process changes, or multivariate testing using Google Website Optimizer it's important to keep testing things. Karl from Conversion Rate Experts gave a fantastic presentation in Munich at A4uexpo where he really demonstrated why testing radical changes is much better than changing little changes. Unfortunately I can't link to his slides but I'm assured he has a post in the works so keep your eyes peeled for that soon.

Top Dating Tip: Test which profile picture will get you most dates by using the My Best Face feature. It lets you see which profile image works better for you and gives you lovely graphical breakdowns of the data to show you which demographic your image works best for. It's like CRO for online dating!

Top SEO Tip: Try segmenting your website optimiser tests. Will wrote a post on how to segment your tests which you should check out.

I hope you enjoyed this - look out for my next installment entitled "5 ways being an SEO doesn't  help you get dates online" which will mainly feature images of SEOs looking geeky and having poor social skills.